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The permanence of motherhood & the fact that you can never ever take a break from it are two main reasons I settled on having just one child. Men will come with their “let people procreate” but the difference is they can easily choose to take a break or not participate at all.

Certainty never raised me. Doubt did. The roots of where I come from, I still carry along, but I’ve had to replant them more than once.

That convo about never being ready to have kids left out the part where even if you have money, how you spend your time will change & automatically some friendships will be put on the shelf or slowly die. You can’t trap nor go on benders like you used to - before parenthood.

Female friendships are truly the modern love story. I love my friends down! Those girls really have my heart! 🥺 Happy National Girlfriends Day cuties 💋

Proximity to privilege in the city has folks who grew up without shoes feel like failures for having 'only' 3. They forget that they're the 1% that made it out of their impossible backgrounds, & that that in itself is a miracle. They overcame that, they can achieve anything.

I’m really eyeing that burgundy trench coat from Zia, hata kama nitaivaa twice a year. 😂🥹

Sisterhood. ❤️

As much as we hate paying these bills, we’ve got to say, ‘Thank you God,’ every time we do because the ability to pay them is a blessing in itself.

Acceptance isn’t amnesia. A five-year stall still happened. Just like motherhood can be deeply sacred, and yet at times, too heavy to hold alone.

Yes. Without a doubt. Not only does it get better, it gets beautiful. Every passing moment is an opportunity to experience reality better than before. Some opportunities are missed but most aren’t. Trust me. You got this!

"Your child deserves the best. If his dad won't work with you towards that,you've got to thug it out!" The first thing to do when in a rut is acknowledging that. Then finding a way out. Proud to say I have doctors,nurses,engineers, teachers and hoteliers I can consult because

I’ve loved camp meetings since childhood. There’s something sacred about them. We’re doing Kwale this year. No network. Just silence, spirit and serenity. My kind of reset.

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My son.

A life where you can afford anything you want. No budgeting down to the last coin. Just soft living and the freedom to take care of yourself and the people you love. That’s the kind of ease I’m praying for.

It’s not about how much you spend, but how you spend it. Tracking your money gives you clarity, not control.

Attractive? No. Rooted in herself? Yes. And that is a softer, wilder, more sacred kind of beauty. One that doesn’t perform, it radiates.

I think the tragedy of the woman worldwide is we have not been allowed to discuss wanting everything, and then working out on how we can get that.. it’s either you want a career or children and if you want one thing then the other is an afterthought

You take kids to the grandparents these days when you hear people say it's because you don't want to parent. 🤣🤣 not me though, village wataenda